Spring Body TuneUp Time-Review of Week 4

May 16th, 2008
This entry is part 5 of 5 in the series Spring Body TuneUp

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This is my final review that I do of this challenge in the form of a post.

After this one, I’ll move it into the forum, where I’ll be posting my goals with regards to this for the coming week, and eventually the review on Friday as well. 

Putting this onto the forum is another of my 30-day experiments, however if anyone would like to join me there, I’ll keep it going as long as there is an interest.

If it’s just me, it goes after 30 days.

The purpose of moving it into the forum, is to continue accountability in the process, while freeing up my Friday spot to post about other things.

In case anyone would like to join me in this, here is a brief description of what we will be doing, and why.

How To Use The Accountability Partners Section Of The Forum 

Accountability partners are people who check in on one another, monitoring and encouraging their progress in whatever goals they may have.

They report on what they intend to do, perhaps define a timeline, set a course for themselves, record their progress, what tools and support they used to get as far as they have come, and what they intend to use to get themselves further along on their goals. Best of all, they help other people to do the same.

They may be looking to move their lives forward in matters concerning health, career, education, relationships, financial management–whatever area of their life they seek to improve, that is what the accountability partners report on.

If you would like to use the forum here for this purpose, please do so.

It has been proven that in areas of self/life improvement, being accountable to someone is a great incentive to keep you goiing. Just knowing someone is there, checking up on you, encouraging you, and perhaps even going through the process right along with you, can do wonders.

If you would like to go along in the process with me, I would be honored to help you, while you help, encourage, motivate, and be a great inspiration to others as well as to me.

That is what the forum is there to do.

Other Stuff Coming Up 

Recently, I gave some thought to what I would like to do in the next three years.

I sat down, pen in hand, daughter off to school, husband at work, and son having a nap, and jotted ideas down as they came.

I noted what I would like to learn, do, how I could improve my life, little tweaks and big goals. All of it got made note of.

This is the list which I will share here with you.

They are in no particular order, although many are thirty day challenges for me to do.

I will begin some this week, when my husband is off on a fishing trip. This will allow me to get a good head start on some of it.

Note: if you have goals and changes of your own for your life in the next 3-5 years, why not share? Comments, ideas, and encouragement are always most welcome! 

Without Further Ado, The List!

This list is for the next three years, and I’ll add to it as I come up with more stuff. Of course, I’ll publish about them here.

1. Help install new flooring in downstairs bathroom.

2. Paint basement walls.

3. Go to the gym 3 times per week, for thirty days.

4. Participate in National Novel Writing Month

5. Maintain a weight of no greater than 127 pounds for three months.

6. Help build our cottage.

7. Help build our garage (beside cottage).

8. Build up an emergency fund of $5000

9. Do not use an automobile for thirty days.

10. Eat no meat for thirty days.

11. Drink only water for thirty days. No juice or alcohol. (Does coffee count as water? Guess not…)

12. Work on current novel project three times per week for thirty days.

13. Read through 15 self development/life improvement books in three years.

14. Get my weight down to 127 pounds.

15. Complete writing a novel.

16. Eat a healthy breakfast every day for thirty days.

17. “Stuff Reduction Program” for thirty days. (Currently working on.)

18. Travel to some other country.

19. Get Little Man off bottles.(Working on.)

20. Get Little Man potty trained.

21. Work on Little Man’s vocabulary (thinking flashcards and lots of books!).

22. Eat nothing with sugar listed in the first four ingredients for thirty days.

23. Get Little Man sleeping always in his Big Boy bed! (Actually, when I made the list, we had just finished making his bed for him. Since making the list, that is where he has been sleeping. Just gotta get the crib out of his room to remove temptation!)

24. Take old wallpaper off walls in Little Man’s room.

25. Redecorate Little Man’s room with cars, etc!

26. Organize my office.

27. Decorate my office (even though I generally work on my laptop in the kitchen!).

28. Toddler proof the basement door.

29. Adopt a dog that fits well with my family (good with kids, etc).

 30. Learn how to paint pictures.

31. Take a beginner’s guide to digital photography course.

32. Get useable and suitable office furniture.

33. Take 1 trip per week to Goodwill, with at least one bag full of stuff, for thirty days.

34. Do a good deed for someone every day for thirty days.

35. Walk for a minimum of 30 minutes daily, for thirty days. On bad weather days, use the treadmill.

36. Eat a salad every day for thirty days.

37. Try a new recipe once a week, for thirty days.

38. Take a photograph every day for thirty days. Publish my favorites here.

39. In the next three years, do a total of ten guest posts on sites other than my own.

40. Write five pages of something, daily, for thirty days.

41. Over the course of the next 3 years, I want to become a professional, full time writer (including with the stuff on this site!)

Review of Spring Body tuneUp–Week 4

Average calories per day: 1807

Total Calories of Junkfood For the Week: (why is this one never zero?):3421

Aerobic Exercise (days): Friday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday

Resistance Training (days): Friday, Monday, Thursday

Steps Per Day (average): 9471

Best Time Spent With Family: I took the kids yard saling on Saturday, and we had a terrific time going through more stuff to eventually add to my stuff Reduction Program! Fun. Cheap. gives me more stuff to do later. Who could ask for more? :-)

Best Time Spent Alone: When I sat down and made the list, above. It was great! You should definitely do this.

Biggest Goal Achieved This Week: Got my series, the Achievers, up and running. check out the first post here

The Five Most Influential Forks On My Road To Happiness/

Be sure to check in next Wednesday, for Part two of the series, when Lacy Boggs, of The Me Makeover and The Spiral Notebook answers the question: What was it that made the most difference, what had the most positive impact, in your life?

Big Goal Set For Next Week: I will get the Accountability Partners section of my forum up and running, and post both my goals for this Spring body Tuneup there (today), as well as progress/pitfalls, etc, with the second report being on Friday of next week.

Total $ Saved Toward Shameless Bribe For Weight Loss: $53.62

That’s it for this week’s review! Hope to see you in the forum!

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The Achievers–Part 1–The Five Most Influential Forks On My Road to Happiness

May 14th, 2008
This entry is part 1 of 1 in the series The Achievers
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Ed. Note:This is the first post in a series of posts in which some of my favorite web writers answer the question: what has had the most positive impact, made the biggest difference, in your life?
Maria Gajewski is a researcher by day, writer of Never the Same River Twice by night, and just recently finished a 30 day fast to raise money for charity. Her blog explores the impact of change and change management on our personal, organizational and community lives. She thinks it’s really cool that the world keeps changing. It keeps us all from getting bored.

When Jeniffer invited me to contribute to “The Achievers” series, I was honored, but also had a dilemma to deal with. On my blog, I talk pretty often about how even major life decisions, like whether to stay married or get divorced, have very little to do with happiness. I know it sounds crazy, but there is some pretty solid research to back up those claims.

On the other hand, I think change is the most fascinating thing, and it was an interesting exercise for me to think back through my life and try to figure out what forks in the road got me to where I am today. That’s how I approached this post. The list that follows contains 5 events or influences that seem to have been critical changes for me.

1. A Library Card. I grew up in a town of about 2,000 people. It didn’t have much, but it did have a library. Every other Saturday, from the time I was 5 or 6 years old until I could drive, my mom packed up the family and set us loose in there. I read my way through entire shelves, and estimate I probably got through about 25% of all the holdings before I graduated high school. The only things I skipped where the paperback romance novels and the encyclopedias!

Why it was important: Because I grew up out in the country and didn’t have a lot of opportunities to travel, the library was my way to see the world. I learned about other cultures, other lifestyles, and other locations. My extensive reading gave me a lot of perpective on the options available to me.

2. A Mentor. When I was really struggling through the angst of adolescence, I was very lucky to have an adult in my life other than my parents that I could talk to. He listened to me - sometimes for hours - in a very nonjudgemental way, and gave me great suggestions for how to deal with all the situations that seemed so important at the time. I still talk to him today and he’s been a great model of the way to live a life.

Why it was important: People tend to lose perspective when we’re in an emotional place. By having a more experienced person’s viewpoint to draw from, I learned how to figure out if something was important, or merely annoying.

3. A Guitar and a Script. I got involved in performing arts at a pretty young age. When I turned 11 my parents bought me my first “real” guitar and sent me to lessons once a week. My sophomore year in high school, I decided to audition for a play and kept acting all through high school. It’s been a long time since I did any acting, but I now proudly display my guitars on my living room wall.

Why it was important: Performing in public is a great confidence builder. Mistakes are definitely going to happen, so you have to learn to pay attention, improvise, and keep going. After doing this for a few years, I’m now completely comfortable speaking in public, even if I haven’t prepared very well. I also don’t fear public humiliation - it hasn’t killed me yet!

4. A Rejection Letter. I was a good student in high school, but I still didn’t get into the program that I wanted at my first choice university. Ouch! I ended up attending my second choice university, beginning in the same program I wanted, and switching majors after my first semester! The university turned out to be a great choice for me. I met wonderful human beings, studied with some true geniuses, and learned more academically and personally than I ever could have hoped. I kept the rejection letter on my dorm room wall for four years.

Why it was important: That rejection was my first glimpse at the idea that even major changes don’t have much influence on future happiness. At the time, it seemed like my life was going to end. It actually turned out pretty well. It also gave me a much needed prick in my over-inflated 17 year old ego!

5. A Gray T-shirt. I graduated in college in 1999 - the absolute height of the tech stock bubble. I had classmates taking jobs for $90,000 a year right out of college, going to work for tech companies, investment banking firms, and Big 5 consulting firms. Something about all that made me feel queasy, so I joined AmeriCorps for $75 a week. While I was in AmeriCorps, I did everything from gutting houses that had been flooded out during Hurricane Floyd, to tutoring kids in Washington D.C. public schools. It was REALLY hard, but I met great people, saw very different parts of the country, and ultimately decided to pursue a career in the nonprofit sector.

Why it was important: By committing to a short term change (the program is only 10 months long), I ended up changing the direction of my career. Before AmeriCorps I planned to take an academic track and teach at a university. By seeing more of the world, I realized that I wanted to make a more immediate impact.

As I look over this list now, I realize that there is a bigger lesson hiding in here: You never know what moment, what choice, or what circumstance is going to take your life in directions you never imagined. Keep your eyes open and enjoy the ride! 

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A Place For My Stuff

May 12th, 2008

yet another junk picture from the studio
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Do you ever think about the stuff in your life?

You know, the clothes you don’t wear, the knickknacks collecting dust on the shelves, perhaps old toys you have had since childhood, but are reluctant to give away?

Each of us, during the course of our lifetimes, amasses a great collection of stuff.

Recently, a post at Think Simple Now inspired me to take a good, long look at all the stuff I have collected over the years, and to think–do I need or want it?

Do I know of anyone or any organization who may actually be able to put to good use any of this “stuff” which I am not using?

What I have decided to do, is to create another thirty day challenge for myself!

Over the course of the next thirty days, I will set out to organize, get rid of, maximize the usefulness of, and toss out as much of my stuff as I possibly can do so with.

I hope no one minds if I refer to my project as they did on Think Simple Now–it is my “Stuff Reduction Program”, and I am basing it largely on the advice in that article.

The categories of things for me to sort through are:

Clothing

I have so many clothes, yet there are many I have never worn.

I have an entire wardrobe intended for a person working in an office, or some other professional workspace, including shoes I am not even sure I could walk in anymore.

I’ll have to sort through my clothes, putting them into piles according to whether I will keep them, throw them into the garbage, give them to charity, or give them to a friend who actually does live the life of an office worker, and would therefore truly appreciate having them.

Videos

We have a large bookcase whose shelves are lined with videos we have not watched in literally years.

Why do we hang onto these forgotten treasures?

Because someday, we may want to watch them.

We haven’t wanted to for at least ten years, but someday…

Out they go!

Books

I love books.

Often, when searching through yard sales, I have been fortunate enough to find them for mere pennies apiece.

Again, I keep them because someday, I may want to read them.

The fact that I have very little time to devote to this treasured practice does not occur to me at the time that I buy them.

They look like they may be a good read, and, in spite of the fact that I already have a bookshelf filled with unread novels at home, I buy them.

For pennies a piece, how can that be wrong?

Well, they need to be sorted at the very least.

Some are from arthors I truly enjoy reading, such as Lisa Gardner (my favorite novelist).

Some are from writers I have never heard of before purchasing the book.

all of them could be borrowed from the library, if I really wanted to read them.

I’ll sort through these as well, although none of them is in poor enough repair to require a “garbage” pile. It’ll be keep (Lisa Gardner), charity, give to friends.

Magazines

Happily, I have cancelled all of my magazine subscriptions some time ago, so this is not such a huge pile of Stuff.

However, I still habe several older artist magazines and some writing magazines.

All are still in good shape.

I won’t ever read them again.

I’ll just put these into a box to be given to charity along with the rest of this stuff.

Stuff In My Office 

I used to jokingly tell my husband that I wasn’t sure what was living in my desk drawers, but I’ve fed it twice.

The thing is, there is so much stuff parked in there, plus the mess within my filing cabinet, that this could well be true.

Definitely part of this challenge will have to include de-cluttering what’s there, and optimizing the usefulness of the stuff I keep.

I have pens, pencils, art supplies, notebooks, loose leaf binders, pins, etc.

Most of the stuff in my desk drawers will be useful eventually. I just need to stop buying more of it until after what I already have in there has been used.

My Bedroom 

I have lots of stuff in my bedroom

Lonely socks waiting for their perfect match to find their way home from the dryer, office supplies in drawers intended for other things, books I have read halfway through, CDs, DVDs, blank computer disks.

Plus the previously mentioned clothes.

So my bedroom will be the first room I tackle with this project.

That, and the bedroom closet.

The closet has enough stuff in it to be the scene of a horror novel. What’s in that dark, danp space, anyway?

 

Think Simple Now ruggests allowing no more than 3 hours for sorting through each category.

I will devote 1 hour per day to this project, two or three days per week (depending on the rest of my schedule).

If possible, I’ll finish half in the first thirty day challenge, but I’m thinking there may be a second challenge lurking in among all of that stuff!

What stuff do you have that you need to sort through? Any tips, ideas, or stories about dealing with stuff of your own? If so, why not share? comments and suggestions are always most welcome!

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